The Blitz
One of the best ways to sneak in under the radar is to spring a surprise on your AB when s/he least expects it. Even if you spend every free minute you have with bABy, like I do, you have ample opportunity to remind him of Who Wears the Heels in your family. Whether he has just come home from work, is in the middle of watching a basketball game, or has just gotten up from a nap, your keen powers of observation are all you need to take advantage of those golden opportunities. Watch your AB, and choose the moment s/he least expects to diaper, enemize, or even spank your Big Boy into bABy mode in no time flat. Literally and figuratively, he won't know what hit him.

The Booby Trap
Sex is a weapon, or so they say. And there is nothing quite like putting on your sexy best to take away your bABy's attention from the ever-present TV or computer screen. While your bABy busies himself with chatting online, call him by his formal bABy name, and get him to turn around to see you dressed, or undressed, to impress. You have only to divert his attention once to change the game to naughty Mommy playtime.

Track Records
A fabulous way to get him good is to keep track of all the little indiscretions he might make as a grown up. Whether it's interrupting, not doing the dishes, cursing, you name it, secretly keep track of his misbehavior so you can surprise him with a punishment later. While the P word gives some people the willies, most ABs are receptive to the fact that they will, at some point, get in trouble for doing something wrong. Little does he know that a punishment can happen at ANY time. Use that privilege to your benefit, and your AB will be sure to stay on the straight and narrow whether he is Big or little.

Drinking Games
One of the favorite topics of diapered erotica centers around the husband who has come home drunk only to be diaper punished by his adoring wife. Turn fiction into fact by doing the same if and when your AB has had too much to drink. What good, after all, does it do to get mad? Instead, get even, with your own brand of diaper punishment until the little miscreant realizes what a bad boy he's been. Note, however, that drinking does equal lowered inhibitions and emotional sensitivity, so if you have a spanking in mind, focus on the mental aspect of making him regret his actions, rather than taking your frustration out on a drunken bottom. And just be sure to give him a bit of love afterward. You want to make sure that his 'sins' have been aptly purged, and forgiven.

Project Nursery
If your bABy is guaranteed to be away from your presence for more than half an hour, one of the biggest shocks/surprises you can make is transforming your bedroom into a nursery. If you are part of a lifestyle Mommy/bABy couple, you are likely to have most of the props you need to transform your bedroom into a fully functioning nursery. Display your supplies obviously and keep them within easy reach. Neaten the surroundings, dim the lights, and prepare all the bABy clothes, diapers, plastic pants, and playthings so he will be bombarded with littleness as soon as he walks into the bedroom door. And make sure to immediately take over the situation when he arrives. Show him who is in charge, and the rest will fall mischievously into place.

The Mommy Laboratory
Another strategy you can use when you are in a particularly playful mood is to try something different during your bABy play. While you may have surprised him with all the trappings of baby changing when he walked into the door, make the situation even more interesting by adding a different activity, such as laxatives or even a diuretic to an already prepared bottle. And don't tell him until after the feeding. I guarantee there will be more than a few butterflies in his stomach the next time he reaches for a glass of milk, or the next time you give him a bottle. This activity, however, should be used with caution, as in any scene involving the ingestion of medication.

If you still want to surprise your bABy with something different but are hesitant to use a laxative or diuretic, remember it is always Mommy's discretion to hint at a spiked bottle, even if it's just milk with chocolate syrup. But you didn't hear that from me… ;)

Panty Raid
If you are in the mood to exert your power over your little one, what better way than to dispense with all the big boy underwear and replace all the boxers and tighty whities with diapers and plastic pants, or, you guessed it, panties! Wait until he is in the shower, and while he is busy, go into his dresser and remove every stitch of big boy underwear that he has. Make sure to hide them thoroughly, or he will certainly try to hunt for them. Imagine the look on his face when he opens his drawer to find nothing but rhumbas and days of the week underwear. Tell me that doesn't bring a smile to your face!

Make sure to milk the situation for all it's worth with a thorough diapering, even if he has to wear them under his clothes. Reassure him that only other ABs and Mommies will notice that he crinkles. And if anybody does notice, who really cares?

Dinner and a Show
If your AB has been particularly good, you can always treat him to a night on the town. Rather than going to the pains of planning an ageplay scenario far in advance, pack the diaper bag and take your bABy out for a happy meal and the animated film of your choice. You needn't tell your AB where you are going or what you might do, just put him in the car with you, buckle him up, and go. Not only will he give his full, undivided attention, he will be wondering whether you are going to pull over and put him into a fresh diaper. Never underestimate the power of the anticipation.

Naughtiness has its Privileges
There isn't any reason why Mommies and caregivers alike shouldn't have just as much fun as their bABies in any scenario. With a little imagination, you can make your own enjoyable mischief in the most unlikely of places. Trust your instincts, use common sense, and most of all, have FUN with being a Mommy. Besides, being naughty isn't always a bad thing…especially when there's no one around to spank you for it!