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Angelo Garcia: "I Came Out Before Ricky"

Angelo Garcia is looking to shed the "other gay member of Menudo" label with the release of his new pop album. He just wants to make sure the media knows he's not riding Ricky Martin's coattails.


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Two months before Ricky Martin announced on his website that he’s a “proud homosexual man,” one of his former Menudo band mates came out ... in an interview that accompanied a provocative underwear shoot for the magazine Paragon Men. The interview with Angelo Garcia came and went and didn’t get much attention. Then Ricky came out, and suddenly news outlets Googling “Ricky Martin gay” found Garcia’s interview.

The 34-year-old Brooklyn-born singer was instantly dubbed “the other gay member of Menudo,” with most outlets claiming he’d come out after Martin and was simply riding his coattails. But Garcia, who left Menudo in 1990 when he was just 14 to pursue a solo career, says he’s been out to his mother since before he graduated from high school. Professionally, his first solo CD came out when he was just 16. In the 12 years before his next release — during which he put himself through college as a stripper in Florida and, later, New York — he lived what he calls a “very out life.” Now, as he readies his latest album (due later this year), he says he’s looking forward to doing it on him terms: completely open, completely out.

Garcia talked to The Advocate about the Ricky rumors, dancing to pay for college, and what he hopes life will be like as an out pop star.

The Advocate: You seemed to be genuinely surprised that your coming-out got so much attention. Did you think you would come out and that no one would pick up on it?

Angelo Garcia: You know what it is — I’ve been an openly gay man since my late teens, so having been out for so long, I’ve never tried to hide anything from anyone. It stresses me out to see the media has taken this whole thing, which was something I casually talked about in an interview, and turned it into this whole “another ex-Menudo comes out.” I don’t look at it as me coming out, because I’ve been openly gay for so long. I hold my boyfriend’s hand when I walk down the street; if you look at my Facebook page, it’s clear that I’m out. For me, it was a nonissue.

But it did hit the media around the same time Ricky Martin came out, so there was that connection.
I spoke publicly about my sexuality two months before Ricky Martin formally came out. So for the media to try and twist this into, “ex-Menudo member follows Ricky’s footsteps,” it’s kind of mind-boggling. I might not have been the most famous member to come out, and maybe Ricky coming out is why the media took an interest in my story because there isn’t only one “ex-Menudo” who is openly gay now. For the media to say I followed in Ricky’s footsteps, no ... Ricky Martin followed in Angelo Garcia’s footsteps. That’s just the truth. It’s really frustrating because a lot of comments have been very negative and very nasty: “He’s just an ex-Menudo trying to ride Ricky’s coattails and wants attention.” If you’re going to say it, say it how it is. This might have exploded in my face because Ricky has the fame he has and I’m not the famous one, but the truth is, I spoke publicly about my homosexuality two months before Ricky posted whatever it is he posted. I’m not trying to ride his coattails. I’m not trying to gain fame.

So when did you first talk about this?
The original interview came out with a photo spread I did for Paragon Men. A lot of people are saying, “Oh, it’s unfortunate you had to do porn to get noticed.” My photos are very artistically done. I’m not trying to compare myself to the Michelangelo paintings or anything, but there was a lot of nudity in those. I don’t have erections. All you see is my butt. They’re beautiful, I’m very proud of them. In no way are they porn. But that was the first time I ever talked about it publicly. Paragon Men put that story out ... it went unnoticed because I’m not famous. After that happened, Ricky Martin came out. Then, that story on Paragon Men resurfaced and caught the attention of TV y Notas, which is the equivalent to People magazine in the United States. A reporter from that magazine wanted to do an interview, and that story exploded.
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  • Name: Oliver
    Date posted: 6/26/2010 12:20:44 AM
    Hometown: Boston/New York

    Comment:

    Angelo is a singer? From what I heard in the locker room at David Barton Gym in Chelsea, Manhattan (New York City), he has the body of a roided up gym queen, shriveled up balls and the singing voice that sounds like a combination of Betty Boop meets Minnie Mouse. Dude needs to lay off the crap he is taking and give his liver a break. I am sure it is screaming for help.

  • Name: Fabio
    Date posted: 6/25/2010 2:29:16 PM
    Hometown: New York

    Comment:

    I guess Angelo, Oops I mean Larry is not all too happy with all the criticism he has Ben getting from readers. I guess the truth really hurts.

  • Name: Larry
    Date posted: 6/25/2010 7:47:43 AM
    Hometown: Montgomery

    Comment:

    I really liked this interview and feel really sad for people that feel that because Ricky Martin is mainstream famous that they can and should degrade this man. He was the break out star of his group and went on with life and has lived life. For someone to say he has not worked a real job or lived a real life how pathetic are you. Did he pic up the telephone and call the advocate? My mouth dropped open when I read those comments are how negative people are. Wow is all I have to say to that. Let Mr. Garcia make his music and live his life as a happy, out, MAN. As he said he came out in an article just in conversation not on a BLOG post on his website 2 months before. What happened to being supportive of all GLBTs. I see that,s only for certain people right?

  • Name: Freddie
    Date posted: 6/25/2010 6:44:23 AM
    Hometown: Chicago

    Comment:

    Damn, wish I'd been staying at one of those hotels with Menudo when they were touring...

  • Name: Chris
    Date posted: 6/25/2010 3:19:19 AM
    Hometown: Miami

    Comment:

    The fact is that Ricky Martin is a talented artist while this one is a joke. While he looks oh so tough, this is one big ol' nelly. And not riding Ricky's coat tails? Come on! Getting interviewed by The Advocate weeks AFTER Ricky came out only shows that he wants a bit of Ricky's spotlight. If I were Mr. Garcia I would focus on gay porn, escorting, or laying off the pipe and roids for a while and get a real life, with a real job, and being a real role model for the GLBT community.

  • Name: Shane
    Date posted: 6/24/2010 5:21:55 PM
    Hometown: Indianapolis

    Comment:

    The fact of the matter is, his coming out didn't get the attention Ricky Martin got because Ricky Martin is famous and Angelo is not. Good for him for coming out, but he needs to stop complaining. He's lucky he got ANY publicity from coming out because nobody even knows who he is.

  • Name: Gerry
    Date posted: 6/24/2010 4:16:15 PM
    Hometown: Cherry Hill, NJ

    Comment:

    I came out in 1976 when I was 14. Not a very popular time to be gay living in the suburbs. Hatred and judgment, violence and ridicule, were everywhere, everyday. It's important to be honest with yourself first and then with others, and the sooner the better. Hiding in secrecy, shame, or fear (of lost income or popular appeal) - those are really harmfu, negative emotions. Live life freely and happily and those around you will reap the benefits of that positive energy. It's not a competition, but it is an interesting place to begin discussion about all the issues involved in coming out. For instance, we have someone living openly, proudly without shame as a gay man, but being judged harshly because of the work he's chosen to do (go go dancing); then we have a closeted man, living in fear, in hiding, who's somehow earned the respect of millions for not revealing who he is and allowing people to assume he's str8. Where's the fairness, logic or sense in that?

  • Name: Kyle
    Date posted: 6/24/2010 4:12:08 PM
    Hometown: New York

    Comment:

    I had "Angelo" when he was working as a dancer (hustler) at the Gaiety. His privates were great and is the ultimate muscle bottom.

  • Name: Quentin
    Date posted: 6/24/2010 3:07:00 PM
    Hometown: New York

    Comment:

    We all know Angelo came out way before Ricky. His 'personal services' ads on Rentboy, walking around Miami with his Italian-American boytoy, and his go-go dancing at the Gaiety in New York were obvious signs that he was a member of the tribe.

  • Name: Roy
    Date posted: 6/24/2010 1:51:57 PM
    Hometown: Morrilton, Arkansas

    Comment:

    I came out in the mid 1970's



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