"I Permit Not a Woman . . ." To Remain Shackled
Table of Contents
Acknowledgements and Dedication
Introduction
1. "Mind Control - Male and Female"
2. "Self-Examination"
3. "I Suffer Not a Woman
.To Remain Shackled?"
4. "Teachings and Practices of the Churches of Christ"
5. "Public Versus Private Meetings"
6. "Our Practices in Christian Universities, Colleges, Journalism and Drama"
7. "Woman in the Apostolic Church"
8. "Equal But Unequal?"
9. "Praying and Prophesying"
10. "Spiritual Gifts"
11. "As Also Saith the Law"
12. "Other Women, Other Scriptures"
13. "Silent - Silence - Other Thoughts"
14. "Other Considerations - What?"
15. "Prayer, Quietness, Exercising Dominion"<
16. "Applying Other Scriptures"
17. "From Then Until Now - Women in The Restoration Movement"
18. "Important Questions"
19. "Clear Conclusions"
20. "Epilogue"
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Introduction
After nearly fifty years of preaching, teaching, serving as an
administrator in Christian colleges and universities, and serving
as an elder in one of Oklahoma's largest congregations, I have
had to admit that I have been guilty of using traditional and
terribly inconsistent arguments to justify my positions and the
church's positions on the roles women could play in the life of
the church.
On a trip to the Republic of China in the early '80s, I found
long term missionaries being confronted by newcomers for allowing
wives and daughters to pray at their tables or in family devotionals.
The newcomers also demanded that English-speaking missionaries
dismiss or silence female translators in classes and in the assemblies.
I spent most of one night in a Holiday Inn at Kaohsiung, in Southern
Taiwan, studying this issue with two concerned missionaries.
The next day, I had a long train ride back to Taipei alone. I
wrestled with the woman's role all that day. I wrestled with
it back across the Pacific on my long flight home. I knew something
was wrong with our traditional arguments, and I knew I must find
out what it was.
After returning to the States, I made an intense year-long study
of this issue. I concluded that many of my long-held arguments
were specious and inconsistent with clear Biblical teachings and
records.
I decided that I would pursue an independent route of study, freeing
myself of the emotional, traditional and intellectual attachments
which had, in the past, skewed my arguments and allowed me to
follow the path of security, safety, least resistance, and even
intellectual dishonesty.
In 1985 I taught a course titled, "Old Truths Re-Examined,"
in a large adult class at the Quail Springs Church of Christ,
in Oklahoma City, where I have served as an elder for eighteen
years. The first six weeks dealt with the woman's role in the
church. I was shocked at how inconsistent I, as well as the church,
had been in what we taught and what we actually practiced. This
class studied my new positions and arguments with some of the
emotional and traditional barriers expected. Most class members
accepted the force of the logic and scriptural arguments, but
found it hard to overcome years of conditioning.
Later, the subject was taught to the college class, then to the
elders, staff, and adult teachers. Finally, it was taught in
the combined Sunday morning adult classes in the auditorium, numbering
about 700.
The fact that I taught these classes does not suggest that there
was unanimity of thought in the eldership and membership on this
subject. Some could not overcome the natural responses brought
on by years of traditional practices. Others could not accept
either of my theses. No one has challenged my arguments, except
two ladies who came to teach me that women could not teach men.
I later received a letter from a lady in Texas who, after listening
to my tapes, not only taught me that I was wrong, but asked that
I leave the church, since I did not teach "Church of Christ"
doctrine.
After these studies, I have discussed the subject with some of
our most distinguished scholars and church leaders. Preachers,
elders, and Bible professors weighed my positions.
I then recorded all my arguments and had them reviewed by a number
of well-known men in our brotherhood. Some could not agree with
my conclusions or arguments. None, however, was able to reconcile
what we traditionally claim the Bible teaches and what we actually
practice in our churches, missions, homes and institutions of
higher education. Moreover, the fact that our accepted hermeneutic
was violated consistently in its application of related scriptures
did not bother some. But, maintaining brotherhood-approved and
safe traditions seemed paramount in most arguments. I did drop
a couple of my original arguments, due to their critiques.
In my search for truth on this subject, I found that we do not
practice what we claim the Bible teaches with any consistency
and, most shocking, I concluded that the Bible does not really
teach what we claim it does. These are the two theses of this
book.
It is only through selective reading of the Bible that we are
able to keep women out of the public life and ministries of the
church.
Nothing could indicate how little we know about the subject and
how poorly we practice what we think we know than positions taken
by the eldership of one congregation and passed out as a guideline
and a policy for the church to follow.
It is typical of the thinking and actions of many churches and
church leaders. It is, in fact, a creedal statement of the elders
and has nothing, whatsoever, to do with Biblical truth.
Part of the creedal statement is as follows:
The policy of the (BLANK) Congregation, as approved by the elders,
is that in formal, officially scheduled and congregationally sponsored
classes and worship services, women can teach all ages and pray
in the presence of both boys and girls who are less than 14 years
of age, but it would not be expedient, and is not acceptable conduct
at the (BLANK) Avenue Church of Christ for the women of this congregation
to lead in prayer in the presence of, or teach males 14 years
or older, especially if those males are baptized believers. This
policy includes the understanding that it is not scriptural for
a woman to preach or teach during formal worship. This policy
does not extend to informal, unofficial, and unscheduled situations
where the elders have no objections to women leading in prayer
in the presence of men or teaching men, as long as none present
are offended.
It is written in the name of expediency, but is contrary to what
their entire statement says about the Bible's teaching on women.
These elders admitted in this policy statement that women did
scripturally pray and prophesy in the presence of men. They state
that in all likelihood Priscilla was the chief speaker in the
teaching of Apollos. It would have been better to both teach
and practice what they believe the Bible teaches than to have
written a creed to keep from doing what they claimed the Bible
allowed. Preaching on giving, missions, reconciliation, baptism,
marriage and divorce, or immorality might not seem to be expedient,
due to the fact that some stubborn members might object. But wise
and honorable men would both teach and find ways to practice what
God requires and allows his people to do.
This eldership went beyond what most elderships and preachers
believe and allow. Many would make the cut at age 12 or at baptism,
without one Biblical verse or sentence of scripture to support
such a doctrine. Most would not allow women to pray or teach
in Bible classes or devotionals, whether formal or informal.
This church's use of formal worship and informal, unscheduled,
unofficial situations, should be noted. One would have to conclude
that God, in His word, makes a distinction between various worship
situations. In other words, at a prayer meeting at the church
on Wednesday night, women can't teach men and boys or lead them
in prayer if they are 14 years of age. But, on Friday night,
at an unofficial gathering of the elders, deacons, preachers and
their wives, women would be allowed to both teach and pray, according
to this policy. On Friday night, women could do what the church
has decreed could not be done at official meetings on Sunday and
Wednesday.
This church is to be commended for accepting some truth about
what God will allow. But, we would conclude that this church,
in the name of expediency, refuses to follow what they believe
the Bible teaches. These elders' policy becomes the standard
and establishes a tradition (law) contrary to what they believe
the Bible teaches.
Why would they allow a few objectors (instead of the Bible) to
establish the policy? And, instead of shackling those who wish
to follow the Bible, why not set a policy which teaches their
concept of truth to those who do not understand it and allow women
to participate in "official" worship services, classes
and prayer meetings? Expediency cannot be a substitute for truth.
Paul would have none of it in dealing with Peter and others who
were law keepers in Galatians 2.
Is it less offensive and less expedient to impose an unbiblical
rule on those who wish to exercise their freedom to scripturally
participate, than to impose one on the objectors to freedoms which
the elders state the Bible allows?
It would seem much wiser and fairer, not to mention more scriptural,
to teach the objectors and demand that they line up with what
the Bible teaches, than to prohibit others who wish to follow
what the Bible teaches in these matters. Why must the pace of
growth and scriptural reform be set by those least informed?
Some would appeal to the rule of expediency (in Romans 14) regarding
offending weaker and younger Christians. The truth usually is
that weaker and younger Christians are not the ones who object
to scriptural change. It is the older, long-time member who usually
objects to accepting and practicing new-found truth.
This issue is not simple and is a long way from being settled.
However, objecting to studying, learning and then practicing
what God's word teaches and allows is not the way of truth or
righteousness.
This book will deal frankly and openly with the inconsistencies
in the teachings and practices of the church. It will also deal
with and shed new light for most people on what the Bible really
says about women's role in God's kingdom.
The Biblical interpretation and application will apply to the
Churches of Christ, Southern Baptist, Roman Catholic, Greek Orthodox,
Lutheran, Missouri Synod, and others who yet shackle their women.
These are the last bastions of male supremacy in the Christian
world. Truth will eventually rip the bars away and beat the walls
down around these churches, like it has hundreds of others.
Contrary to what many church leaders and women in the Christian
world believe about Paul being a male chauvinist, this book will
reveal him as a promoter of women's right to participate in the
public life of the church.
A doctrine on women has been built on three short passages in
I Corinthians 11 and 14 and I Timothy 2. From this doctrine,
a variety of traditions have been established. Then, using these
varying traditions as scriptural mandates, the leaders of the
churches have developed a smorgasbord of practices which attempt
to explain away other clear Bible teachings and Bible history.
At the same time, both logic and consistency have been skewed
and warped to accommodate the misinterpretation of scripture and
to attempt to be consistent on flawed Biblical understanding.
Nothing is more basic to our understanding of this subject or
any other than the way we have been trained to feel about church
authority and the authorities who believe they have a right to
do the thinking for the church.
Therefore, before we address the theses of this book, Chapter
One will deal with this very real mine field.
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