Update the choices you made and the information you gave us when registering your account here. You can also change your password, set e-mail options, and create a chat room shortcut on your "my account" page.
Set your personal account preferences
After you log in at http://www.gay.com you can click the "my account" link to access your account preferences. The top of the "my account" page includes your name, gender, birthdate, and country of residence.
Change your password
To change your password, enter your new password in the two fields in this section. Be sure to click the "Update my account" button at the bottom of the page to save your change.
Set your email contact options
The e-mail and notification options allow you to specify an e-mail address for messaging and special notifications from Gay.com. You can also allow other Gay.com members to send you private, anonymous messages via a link on your profile. Your e-email address will not be displayed for other members.
Create a chat shortcut
Preselect your favorite chat floor and chat room as a front page shortcut. See the "my chat" instructions for setting this option.
Having trouble with your password?
Have you forgotten your member name or password? Try our "Forgot your password?" page. Just enter your member name and we'll send your password to the e-mail address you submitted upon registration.
If you are not sure what your member name is or if you don't remember the e-mail address you submitted, click here, where we'll ask you for more information, validate the request and send your member name and password to the e-mail address you entered upon registration.
Do you want to cancel your Gay.com membership?
If you would like to cancel your paid Premium Personals service, please click here.
If you would like to cancel your Gay.com membership, please complete the form below. Be sure to fill out the form completely so our Member Care staff can verify your information and process your request. To protect our members' privacy, we must ask for matching information on the form below to make any changes to account information.
Note: Please do not use this form if you wish to create a new account. Create a new account on the Gay.com registration page.
Please note: This is not an automatic service. We will validate your information and send you an e-mail with account information to the above address. Don't give us the e-mail address of the Gay.com account you are having trouble accessing.